"..you dont know what you got till its gone.."

this is just a pinch on lyrics of "Big Yellow Taxi" by Counting Crows
Featuring Vanessa Carlton.
so true.

this is as simple as this example:

your mobile fone is always on your pocket, bag, at the table, below your bed and everywhere. you knew to yourself that its THERE, and it will never leave where you put it. so, hindi mo masyado pinapansin ang phone mo, not unless may nag text or tumawag. here's the catch.. one time, di mo na ito mahanap. in other words, nawawala. e kailangan mo ang cellfone mo that time kasi may tatawagan kang importanteng tao. thats the only time you've wasted enough effort to find something so important to you only to realize it was too late. you dont know
what you got till its gone, right? mas nagiging importante sa iyo ang isang
bagay kapag wala na sayo. mali diba? why is that so? hindi mo alam na wala na
pala sayo ang isang bagay kapag itoy wala na.

its a negitive attitude towards everything and/or to everyone.

instead, habang nandiyan pa ang taong mahalaga sayo at nag bigay halaga sayo, dont waste time. show to him/her that she/he is very important to you in your simple yet little ways. alagaan natin ang mga relationships na hindi lang nabuo sa isang linggo na parang sabon na pinabula then after a few seconds mawawala. gaya ng relationship as friends. mas nakikita natin na mahalaga pala siya/sila kapag wala na. and for this, we'll settle from the words like.. "sayang, nagsisis ako, kasi naman and sana lang dati.." after you lose them.

the world is full of surprising events. live to the fullest coz today might be
your last. live without regrets and fears.

*still a recomended book for all walks of life:

please.. if anyone of you had the time, please read "the little prince" by antoine de saint exupery. manipis lang siyang book. at madali siyang maintindihan because it is a children's book. the book will change the way you think about friendships. you'll be back to the basics of the word.. RELATIONSHIP.