Jan 17, 2005

five teachers and a san mig light!

Yesterday, I'm with a group of women drinking casually and talking about anything we could think of. It's a funny night with them and only me as their guest. I never thought women are somewhat the same as us, men when having a drink or two. Like us, they too talk about the oposites, fashion, jokes, their current status, relationships and even the most absurd and weirdest things happened or will happen. they do talk about their careers as college students and their working relations to the world they're into. nakakatuwang isipin na lahat sila gustong maging instrumento ng pagbabago. they are all teachers to be. in some point of their lives, they've seen the changes in the society from grade school teaching techniques to high school spoon feedings! and that's something to look forward to. ewan ko lang kung makaka lusot pa ang mga palusot ng mga estudyante nila sa future! hahahaha!!!! there's one topic that i do mostly enjoyed, the in's and out's of themselves. dito nagkaka aminan kung ano ang ayaw at nagustuhan nilang ugali ng bawat isa after being with each other for nearly five years. siyempre not counted ako dun kasi i'm not with them for the past years of their lives in school. each of them gaved their honest testimonies to each other and all of them maturedly accepted the way they thought about each other. and that's wonderful! kasi dito nasusubukan yung satisfaction ng bawat isa sa company... and this leads them to grow more and to be more than what they expect from themselves. ang mahalaga dun ay rerespetuhin ka nila kahit ano man ang iyong pinagdaanan or napagdaanan na. ang sarap talagang magkaroon ng kaibigan na hanggang sa kalalimlaliman ng buto mo ay kilala ka. simply one of the best gifts that a friend could offer is the time spent with each other. a minute, an hour, a day it doesnt matter... the most essential things are invisible to the eyes.

How twisted and unfair to consider women as weaker than men. How inconsiderate to think that gender equality is the basis for treating women rightly. i mean this is the same reasons why clashes of sex wars are silently happening in the society. one sees the other as weak eventhough we all know that all people have disabilities of their own. why not respecting each other's unique ability be the sole attitude towards each other. I've been with these women just one night, allowing me to explore and observe their multitude of ideas, only to find out that their world is not different with ours. I'm not saying i know them so much already. there's more to them to explore and to understand. More to them than their sparkling eyes and heart-fainting smiles!

Thanks and cheers to teacher's kessa, aecee, ann, kooky and pammy for the wonderful night of laughter, talks, tasty lumpiang galungong and easy smooth drinks!

random question of the week:
Paano kayo malasing? Ano ang inyong ugali or ginagawa kapag lasing na lasing na? mamaya na ako sasagot. kayo muna...