Of friends and Issues...

Tune for the moment: "Somewhere Only We Know" by KEANE

Everyone has it's own worst experience about this. Either been a victim or have been accused. This is a cowardly thing a person could have done to someone. A last fatal blow. But in the end, a person who backstabs will never gonna be a winner. It will only put more gasoline to a burning wreckage.

Everyone is susceptible. Everyone's not knowingly unto this kind of mess until they are already aware that they do hurt someone. Some people have done it in purpose, while others have no choice.Heavenly sent relationships went awful in an instant and you lose touch on your morality. Some lose their sanity others failed to accept reality. Still this bad attitude exist even if we do know it's a sin.

I had two friends right now backstabbing each other. Both female. they WERE best friends before until a lethal news that they called it a "joke" broke of to one of their 'open forum'. One girl could not let go of the past to her ex-lover and accused of being selfish while the other girl had secretly in-love to her bestfriend's ex boyfriend.

I wouldn't go on more about the details. It scares me to think that relationship as friends end like this now adays. backstabbings, fault findings, naggers, mess makers and everything in between. All forgotten the essence and value of having a friend.

People tend to say "best friends are also your best enemies." To hell with these people who thought about this. This quote made the society poor on having a self concept of relationships or companionships. They lack comprehension on that of a viatl key were once a person enters a certain relationship, they will be vulnerable to lost, hate, fear of losing, envy, mistrust, backstabbing, misleading, bad influence, pressure, unloved, doubtful and advantaging one another's capabilities, good attitude and skills. If we understood these, then we will be more aware of ourselves of knowing and choosing the treasures we will keep. Too idealistic? too perfect? Perhaps. Probably. Maybe. It's not all about the perfect ones but the real ones who come along.

well... let's get back on this ailing issue on backstabbing. What ever happened to mr. dignity and ms. humility? I hope they're not lost in this culture. I know they're still here. All it needed was to tap them in our hearts and mind.